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The Life and rantings of a queer, black, feminist. The content on this blog may offend misogynists, racists, patriarchs, homophobes and shit humans in general, but as the beautiful and wise Lebo Mashile put it:
“I don’t walk into a situation wanting to disrespect anyone, so if people are offended, then they’re offended by the values contained within the content of what I am saying.AND IF YOU’RE OFFENDED BY MY VALUES WELL THEN FUCK IT! You’re supposed to be! I don’t want misogynists to like me, I don’t want people who hate black people to like me, I don’t want people who are fronting to like me. It’s taken me a long time, but I’m learning to embrace it, and to realize also, that a negative reaction can also be a positive measure of your impact”
Energy is a powerful fucking thing. Your thoughts are a powerful fucking thing. Whatever you spend both on is what you will attract. I have been spending… Read more “Querying the cloak, Queering the solution”
In the last couple of weeks I have found myself speaking about my sexual orientation and how I identify with people that I am recently getting to… Read more “Politically I choose to only date women! Say what now?”
It’s Sunday afternoon, I have a meeting in 45 minutes and I am supposed to be completing a take home exam. But like I said, Its Sunday… Read more “‘I love you’…but how much of that is actually about you?”